Hockey in Canada

This is one of my favourite seasons of the year. A time to share a little holiday cheer, good food and gatherings with family and friends. It is also the time of year for the International Ice Hockey Federation’s World Junior Championships and a celebration of the game of hockey. 

 

Hockey Canada and the sport of hockey have come under intense scrutiny recently and rightfully so. Distressing allegations of sexual assault and secret hush funds are in the headlines. While Hockey Canada's CEO and entire Board of Directors stepped down in October, the people involved need to be accountable and Canadians want to know the truth. Hockey Canada is a grass-roots organization that works alongside 13 provincial and territorial branches, the Canadian Hockey League, and U-Sports. It is responsible for developing and stewarding the game for all participants at all levels. While they are the primary governing body, Hockey Canada is not hockey. Reprehensible behaviour by a few people involved in the game is not hockey. Hundreds of thousands of kids, juniors, university, senior, and adult rec league players and thousands of local volunteers, coaches, managers, administrators, referees, and billet families are 'hockey in Canada'. Critics asserting that abusive or criminal behaviour are part of the 'systemic culture of hockey' are offering sensationalized and outrageous conclusions.  This is a terrible disservice to the overwhelming majority of good people and families involved in the game. 

 

The ethos of hockey is defined by hard work, selflessness, and dedication. Hockey norms include dressing formally on game days, being gracious and humble, battling hard, sticking up for teammates, and then lining up to shake hands with your opponent, and using words like "us and we" after a loss or a win. For over a century, the most revered players have been admired for their hockey talents, but also their leadership, humility, and generosity as human beings. Red Kelly, George Armstrong, Jean Béliveau, Gordie Howe, Bobby Orr, Guy Lafleur, Ken Dryden, Börje Salming, Mike Bossy, Wayne Gretzky, Joe Sakic, Jarome Iginla, Steve Yzerman, Paul Kariya, Danielle Goyette, Henrik and Daniel Sedin, Niklas Lidström, Hayley Wickenheiser, Patrice Bergeron, Sidney Crosby, Marie-Philip Poulin, and countless others. With any team of high profile athletes (or any ‘celebrated’ group of men), entitled, selfish, or bullying individuals only thrive in a context where leaders model, ignore or tolerate these behaviours. This is not the 'culture of hockey' and it needs to be confronted and dismantled where it exists.

Like many Canadians, I have enjoyed a lifelong love affair with the game of hockey. As a kid, I embraced the full sensory experience of the game. I loved the quiet stillness of an arena very early in the morning, the smell and feel of the cold air on my face, the crunching sound my skates made cutting across fresh ice and the distinct clatter of a puck being handled and snapped off a stick blade or pinged off a crossbar. Chasing around a worn tennis ball in road hockey or playing shinny hockey for hours on a frozen pond or field were great, simple pleasures in life. While these exist in every team sport, as I grew older, I admired the spirit of 'doing the right thing' - hard work, selflessness, perseverance, and inner courage - that are embedded in the game. As a coach and father, these were the values I tried to instil in my players and our two children, as these will make you a good teammate, and more importantly, a better person.

 

Even Canadians who have little interest in sport or perhaps begrudge the popularity of hockey, will acknowledge that the game we invented is part of our identity as a nation with long, cold winters. You will find an arena in every Canadian town and hockey represented in our art, currency, and postage stamps. Many have written about the influence of hockey, including Richard Wagamese*:

Hockey’s grace and poetry...The thrill of it lifts people out of their seats. Dreams unfold right before your eyes, conjured by a stick and a puck on a hundred and eighty feet of ice. The players? The good ones? The great ones? They’re the ones who can harness that lightning. They’re the conjurers. They become one with the game and it lifts them up and out of their lives too.

Peter Gzowski called it "the game of our lives" and Bill Boyd wondered if the "wintry religion" was a metaphor for Canadian life. Intellectually, I understand that Canada is a diverse nation, home to millions of happy and proud Canadians who do not play nor care much about hockey. Emotionally, I want to believe the game is ingrained deep within Canada's soul. We all view the world through a lens coloured by our context and experiences, and Saturdays in our family was a time to gather around the TV to watch Hockey Night in Canada. I was an impressionable boy and young hockey player in 1972 when Canada defeated the Soviet Union in an epic 8-game series in the midst of the Cold War. Stephen Brunt reminds us that the world is changing and "Saturday nights are no longer a great, national communal moment", yet hockey is our game, and still holds a place in our collective identity.

 

'In the Dead of Winter' by Bill Brownridge

Canadians enjoy many sports and all develop skill and build character. More Canadian kids participate in soccer than any other game. 'Football' is easily the most popular sport on the planet, and the recent, thrilling World Cup reinforced that we still have a lot of room to improve. Fans long for the day when our men’s national team joins our women’s side and can win games and championships on the world stage. In the most recent men's World Cup of Rugby, the champion Springboks from South Africa defeated Canada 66-7. The Americans have won 16 Olympic gold medals in men’s basketball and seven in a row in women’s basketball. In Canada, we struggle to reach the podium in many international sporting events, and we should never apologize for being the gold standard in a game we play well. Men’s, women’s, and sledge hockey will continue to be among the featured sports of the Winter Olympic Games and all hockey playing countries are striving to reach and surpass the level of Canada, and several nations are close.

 

The World Junior Ice Hockey tournament pits the best hockey playing countries in the world against one another once a year. The International Ice Hockey Federation actually hosts six different U20 World Junior Championships annually. In 2023, 42 countries will compete in IIHF U20 World Championship Tournaments: Worlds (in Halifax/Moncton); Division I/Group A (Norway); Division I/Group B (Poland); Division II/Group A (Lithuania); Division II/Group B (Iceland); and Division III (Turkey). Canada has won the top U20 World Championship 19 times and are the defending champions. The Russians (or Soviets) have won gold 13 times, while the rapidly improving Americans and Finns have both won 5 titles, and the Czechs and Swedes have each been champions twice.

Russia has not won the tournament since 2011 and was scheduled to host this year, but the IIHF had the moral courage to ban the country from participating in response to the ongoing and brutal Russian invasion of Ukraine (#SlavaUkraini 🇺🇦). When hosted in Canada as it is this year, the games draw thousands of enthusiastic fans, the Canadian games are sold out, and millions watch on television. When held anywhere else in the world, the junior games mostly attract crowds in the hundreds.  Canadians love watching hockey, and especially the World Juniors. We recognize the game in its purest form. Highly skilled, hardworking, young, amateur players who are proudly representing their country playing a game they love. Coming together only ten days prior to the tournament, many are team captains and skilled players who are used to getting a lot of ice time on their respective junior or college teams, who willingly accept a much different and reduced role to play for their country. They skate every shift at full speed: they hit, they block shots, and they play the game with the heart, will and spirit that sets them apart as Canadians. Away from home at Christmas, these teenagers also face incredible pressure as the expectation for Team Canada is to win gold, always.

 

Hockey fans also appreciate the tremendous speed and talent of the American and European players. All of the games are fast, skilled and very physical but fighting and undisciplined play are unwelcome. Over the years, we have gotten a glimpse of international stars as teenagers, just before their rise to professional prominence. Brilliantly skilled players like Pavel Bure, Alexander Ovechkin, Auston Matthews, Trevor Zegras, Jaromir Jagr, Peter Forsberg, Mikko Rantanen, and Leon Draisaitl. However, not every World Junior tournament player is destined for the National Hockey League, and many do not go on to enjoy prominent careers as professional hockey players. Yet we still love to watch because seeing these young, amateur athletes play with incredible heart and passion while representing their countries is compelling, and often inspirational.

Joyous hockey fans celebrating a Team Canada victory. 

 

As in all sports, training and coaching have advanced incredibly over the years and the top hockey nations can match Canada in terms of skating, skill, and preparation. They know that if they play the perfect game, Canada can be defeated. They also know that if they get a lead, Canada will fight back until the final buzzer. Structure and systems are important, but hockey is a free-flowing game, and if you play together with heart, passion, and spirit, you can succeed. This is what separates Canada, still.

 

While I hope the Canadian juniors recapture gold, I look forward to all of the games that begin on Boxing Day. I expect that win or lose, these young athletes will play their hearts out and represent their countries and the sport with humility, pride and class, on and off the ice. This is the culture of hockey.

My dog, Hockey the Labrador. ❤️🇨🇦

*Richard Wagamese's 6th novel was the award-winning Indian Horse. The protagonist, Saul Indian Horse, is sexually assaulted by a teaching priest while living in a Canadian Residential School. Saul's tremendous skills as a hockey player help him temporarily transcend this unimaginable misery. The novel touches on many dark themes in our history. When confronted by peers about playing hockey, Saul takes his time to answer. "It's not a perfect country", he said, "But it's a perfect game."  The novel is well-written, and a powerful and important read.

 

 

Postscript:

Growing up with the game is my bias, and hockey is just a game. At the same time, my experiences provide some capacity to comment on the culture of hockey. Our Dad was an executive in amateur hockey for 30 years and his work emblematic of the efforts of most leaders in the sport. Against considerable resistance, he worked to eliminate stick violence and brawls once common in the game as he believed they were driving many kids away. He also focused his leadership on promoting a grass roots philosophy of 'learning the skills and having fun' and on strengthening the nexus between education and hockey. As a volunteer, he served as the president of the PCAHA and BCAHA (now BC Hockey) and was on the Board of Directors at the CAHA (merged with Hockey Canada in 1994). He was the founder and GM of a successful junior hockey franchise and president of the BC Junior Hockey league (BCHL) at the time of his death in 1991. While not talented enough to represent Canada or have a career playing, I had the good fortune to play Junior A and university hockey and for a few seasons overseas in the late 1970s and 1980s. Teammates and friends played in the WHL, NCAA, professionally in North America and Europe and in Spengler Cups and the Olympics. I later coached the game for many years and observed my son's hockey experiences in junior and college (he graduated in 2019). I spent thousands of hours in rinks, dressing rooms, buses, planes, hotel rooms and on road trips. I am a reflective person and acknowledge that people process the same experiences differently. I have also discussed the current firestorm with many former teammates. We are of the mind that while hockey was imperfect at times, we never once heard nor saw any "toxic culture of sexual assault" in the game. The overwhelming majority of experiences we had and good people we met in hockey enriched our lives and we feel grateful and fortunate. We also agree that the sport must continue to evolve, grow, and improve and that coaching and leadership must model integrity and respect, always. 

 

The greatest threat to the game of hockey in Canada is rising costs. Equipment, skates, sticks, and registration expenses are high. The increasing pressure on parents to pay for private training, skating and skills lessons, spring and summer leagues, and 'elite' or 'academy' hockey has become problematic. Skyrocketing costs will prohibit many kids from ever playing the game and this will be a loss for Canada. Hockey is for everyone is an important campaign - the fine print should not be 'so long as you can afford it'.

 

Bah Humbug

(idiom: an expression used when someone does not approve of or enjoy something that other people enjoy).

December is a hectic time of year. In schools, teachers are busy finishing units and students will have several due dates to meet before the winter break. In many areas of the world, December is also the holiday season, and this can add layers of excitement, joy, and stress. Most Canadian schools organize celebrations that may include concerts, school-wide fundraising and food drives, pancake breakfasts or luncheons and holiday dress-up or spirit days. In many schools, these annual, fun, and optional celebrations have been organized for decades, and are touted as important community-builders, but are they out of touch? Recently, there has been some debate about whether public schools should scale down or eliminate these activities and exclude words like “Christmas” and “Santa” altogether.

Healthy public education is both secular and inclusive. Our public schools should reflect our diverse, multicultural communities and work thoughtfully to be sure every child sees themselves in what is taught, highlighted and celebrated. In 2019, Abacus Data reported that 87% of Canadians celebrate Christmas. An increasing number participate in Christmas as a secular event rather than a religious holiday, and 8 in 10 Canadians responded that they will decorate their homes for the holiday. Public schools should not have nativity displays nor promote religion, but it seems simplistic to ban Santa in a society where the great majority will participate in this ubiquitous ‘holiday season’. It also seems worthwhile to highlight the universal themes of helping those less fortunate, being thoughtful and giving, spending time with friends and family, and sharing a traditional meal together. 

Recognizing and celebrating our diversity are very important, and strengthening the Canadian mosaic should be an additive process. This is unlikely to be accomplished by eliminating traditions and celebrations important to many Canadians. First Nations, Inuit and Métis Peoples have long hosted feasts, dances and ceremonies around Winter Solstice, and many Indigenous communities have fused these with Christmas celebrations. We should also understand that when people gather around a fire, or beside a decorated evergreen tree, holly and mistletoe; enjoy a winter feast and merriment, and participate in gift giving, they are taking part in pagan Yule traditions that stretch back thousands of years — long before the story of Christianity. Our schools must continue to teach and increase visibility for Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, Yom Kippur, Lunar or Chinese New Year, Black History Month, Ramadan, Eid al-Adha, Diwali, Vaisakhi, National Indigenous Peoples Day and other cultural celebrations connected to the local community. We should also understand that several are deeply connected to different faiths. All are important to help us understand, include and unite Canadians and strengthen our sense of community. While examining traditions is a very healthy exercise, not allowing a Christmas tree and Santa Claus seems misguided. This too is us.

Season’s Greetings. Happy Holidays. Happy Quviasukvik. Happy Yule. Merry Christmas. Chag Sameach. Happy Kwanzaa. Happy New Year!

p.s. Spoiler alert - Santa is not real, but has survived a few hundred years as an idea. Santa Claus is a blend of pre-Christian paganism, Christian influence and a whole lot of modern, secular myth-making. Santa was influenced by the Norse god Odin from 2 BCE. A wise, white-bearded spirit who flew the skies on an 8-legged steed with sleigh. Crafty, gift making elves were also prominent in Norse mythology. Later, 4th century folklore traditions revered Saint Nicholas from Greece. Nicholas was known for his generous gifts to the poor. In the late 1700s in the Netherlands and other nations, Sinterklaas placed sweets and small gifts in children's shoes on December 6. Different names, iterations, dates and traditions can be found around the world. Thanks to the creative interpretations of many 19th and 20th century authors, poets, artists and marketing specialists, in North America Santa has morphed into a jolly old elf in a red suit who lives at the North Pole and brings presents to all the world’s children, while filled with mirth and “laughing all the way”. The latter not a bad way to approach life in 2023. 

p.p.s. School communities are different and context is important. The conversations about and planning of school events should ideally include a widely representative group of students, staff and parents. Whether 'Breakfast with Santa', 'Chinese New Year', 'K-Pop contest' or a 'Baisakhi Bhangra Festival', everyone should feel welcome, and all make us better.

Movember

With time on my hands, growing a ridiculous looking moustache for Movember seemed like something fun to do. My son was generous enough to join me. I have participated in the past and am vaguely aware that Movember was started by a couple of Australians 20 years ago as a bit of a lark to see if they could make the moustache popular again. The month-long campaign each November is now active across 23 countries including Canada, and has funded over 1,250 men’s health projects. The charity is focused on raising awareness, programming, and financial support for prostate and testicular cancers, parenting and how to be a better dad, and mental health and suicide prevention. 

We live in a time where some may question an initiative designed solely to support men’s health. The facts are that men are less likely to be informed and seek help for health-related issues. Research reveals large gender disparities in health status, with men at higher risk for morbidity and mortality. As with all studies, it is difficult to pinpoint causation, but greater engagement in risky behaviours and decreased use of preventative health care services are higher amongst men. Most societies and cultures still hold traditional beliefs on male gender roles and masculine norms. Men use less preventive health-care services and do not seek immediate treatment for many health problems. Resilience and inner strength are admirable qualities, but not scheduling regular medical check-ups and screenings or denying mental health concerns are neither stoic nor manly, and they can be deadly.

Men are less likely than women to be diagnosed with any of the most common mental health disorders, and those who have received a diagnosis are less likely to seek treatment. Yet nearly four times as many men as women die by suicide. Globally, one man dies by suicide every minute of the day. In Canada, 3 out of 4 suicides (80% in the US) are by men. From 2016 to 2022, over 10,000 people have died from illicit drug toxicity in B.C., and the vast majority (78%) have been men. Movember looks at mental health through a male lens, focusing on prevention, early intervention, and health promotion. While we have come a long way in recent years, hiding anxiety or depressive symptoms are not uncommon. Ongoing mental health education and support are critical to erode the stigma. We all have mental health, and we need to talk about it – and to really listen.

My son is strong and healthy. He is a good man - honest, kind, reliable and lives with integrity and love in his heart. He also works in a complex and demanding profession and grew up in a home with some traditional ideas on what it means to be a good man. It is my hope that he sees his doctor regularly and always feels safe enough and loved enough to talk about and take care of his physical, emotional, and mental health and that he encourages others in his life to do the same.

Moustache or not, a good way to celebrate Movember is by checking in with the people you love, and with yourself. 

Cheers. 🍻

 

 

Do You Remember...September...🎶

Fluttering leaves and the arrival of cooler nights are a sure sign the unhurried days of summer are fading and the busyness of fall is looming. This changing of the seasons also signals the start of a new school year. For many thousands of kids, parents, teachers, school and district staff and principals and vice principals, the beginning of September brings a range of emotions. Indeed, I suspect that for most people, the arrival of fall brings memories of their school days – whether it was elementary, high school or university. Does 'back to school' conjure up feelings of stress and anxiety or hopefulness and happiness? As educators and school communities, are we committed to creating the conditions for the latter?

How many of us would like a ‘fresh start’ in life? In a relationship, a career move, or a chance to reconsider a significant life decision or choice? September brings this for young people. Students get to begin again – new classes, new teachers and new goals. An authentic opportunity to reset and restart. In the first weeks of school, hallways are typically empty several minutes before the start of class. Students arrive early, excited to connect with classmates new and old, and their teachers, and they are curious about new learning. Whether you are beginning your first year in a role or you’re into your third decade as an educator, be mindful of the possibilities of a new year. While you may have lost count of how many times you have welcomed a group or taught a particular course or grade, for the people in front of you, it is an important first impression. Are you offering hope? Are you communicating a message of "you can do this, and I will help"? As a school community, how can you defeat the drudgery and discouragement sometimes created by repetitive routines and constant due dates or meetings? Do the defined structures and sameness built into a typical school day erode this excitement – in students and in educators? How might you sustain the optimism and curiosity so alive at the start of the term for an entire year?

While Labour Day often ended in a fitful night of sleep, I was always energized by the start of a school year. Despite enrolment uncertainties, unfilled postings and the hecticness of getting a large organization and community up and running smoothly, a new school year offers possibilities for positive change. Look forward to the ‘welcome back’ staff gatherings and student assemblies and do your best to greet everyone with excitement, enthusiasm and passion. Be aware that for some staff and students, back to school brings angst and uneasiness. I encourage all educators to be mindful of this trepidation, and focus on building relationships first. Highlight the joy, potential and possibilities in welcoming students to a new start, and work every day to sustain the 'new beginning' hopefulness all year. 

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P.S. - the title of this post may remind you of the classic Earth, Wind & Fire song "September" from 1978.  Revisit this happy and hopeful tune by clicking here.